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7 Top Signs That Dating Won’t Lead to a Relationship

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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">When it comes to dating, we women think we are pretty good at telling which “signs” are pointing to a future relationship. After dating someone for a while, we begin to think we have an understanding of what actions are those of a potential boyfriend, and which actions are those of a potential heartbreaker. For example, I know that I, and a few of my girlfriends, have been in the position of dating a guy for a few months, with no talk of being exclusive. But even when there’s no talk of exclusivity, or in some cases, an explicit declaration from them about not wanting to be exclusive, we still chat with our friends over lunch about all the “signs” we got from them on our latest date.</span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Before I was married, I experienced a lot of these signs from many unattainable men. Men that made me think if I just stuck it out, they would end up becoming my boyfriend. But it never happened. No matter how many signs I thought I saw on the highway to love, they always ended up being dead ends. In all honestly, the best sign of interest anyone can ever give you is an honest declaration of their feelings for you. Now, don’t think I mean they should rent a billboard or learn how to play a musical instrument and sing you a song about how much they want to marry you. I just mean a simple and direct, “I like you, and I want to be in a relationship with you.” Obviously, it takes some people longer than others to open up and let someone in. But if you’ve been dating for a while now and you haven’t had that talk about exclusivity or where you stand, then don’t put all of your stock into the “signs.”</span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">So, here are some of the “signs” I, and friends of mine, have seen while dating someone and misread.</span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">1. He holds your hand.</strong></span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Don’t think that just because someone is holding your hand while walking through the park one day that they aren’t holding someone else’s at the movies that night.</span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">2. He invites you on a trip with his friends</strong></span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">While I myself have not experienced this, a few of my friends have. Being invited camping, skiing or anywhere where you can be treated like “one of the guys” might not necessarily turn out in your favor. Especially when you’re on a group trip with a bunch of people you don’t know. You can end up feeling alienated.</span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">3. He cooks you breakfast in the morning</strong></span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">We’ve all been there. You don’t mean to sleep over, but it’s getting late, or it’s really cold outside or you just can’t fathom taking the subway at this hour. The next thing you know, you wake up wearing his old NYU T-Shirt and he’s frying eggs and brewing fresh coffee in his kitchen. Don’t confuse good manners with romantic feelings. Yes, it’s sweet that he didn’t send you packing the moment you woke up, but unless your eggs came with a side of commitment, don’t read too much into this.</span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">4. He takes you apartment/house-hunting with him</strong></span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">It’s very strange, but it does happen. Every now and then, a guy’s lease will be up and he’ll ask you to accompany him on his search for the perfect condo. He’ll say things like, “I care about your opinion on the place,” or “When I move in, I’m sure it will need a woman’s touch.” This has trap written all over it. I had a guy do this to me the day after my birthday one year. We ended things a week later after five months of him telling me he wasn’t sure he was ready for a relationship.</span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">5. He cuddles you while you’re sleeping</strong></span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">There’s nothing more comforting then falling asleep next to someone you care about while they stroke your hair or even wrap their arms around you. But comforting or not, this display of emotion may be nothing to write home about. Sometimes, people just like to have something to hold. Sometimes, people like to have all of the benefits of a relationship without any of the responsibility of one. And unfortunately sometimes, a hug is just a hug.</span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">6. You ask him a question about his feelings for you and instead of giving you an answer, he kisses you.</strong></span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">For some reason, movies and television have perpetuated this throughout the years. I’m sorry, but a kiss is not an answer!</span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">7. He brings you as his date to a wedding.</strong></span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">While some men believe bringing a date to a wedding is like bringing sand to the beach, others cannot stand to face a party stag. And while at the ceremony, your eyes may tear when hearing the sweet exchange of the bride and groom’s vows and you grab your date’s hand tighter and he smiles, this doesn’t mean he’s thinking of getting married himself.</span></div>
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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">I’ve seen guys come to a wedding with one woman and leave with another at the end of the night (it actually happened at my wedding!). If you’re really feeling romantic at the end of the night, ask the guy flat out how he feels about being with you. If he really wants to be with you, you won’t need any signs at all.</span></div>
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7 Top Signs That Dating Won’t Lead to a Relationship

7 Top Signs That Dating Won’t Lead to a Relationship

When it comes to dating, we women think we are pretty good at telling which “signs” are pointing to a future relatio...

8 Signs to know that your partner is cheating on you

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Sometimes, people have reasons to be a little insecure in their relationships, and it’s hard to gauge whether you have a legitimate reason or are just being paranoid. So how can you get an idea if they’re cheating on you, without doing something as crazy as searching through their private messages and emails?</div>
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We consulted eHarmony’s blog, eH Advice, to get some answers.</div>
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<li style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 3px 0px 3px 5px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Your partner is evasive and/or defensive</strong></li>
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If your partner gets defensive when you ask them where they have been or what they’ve done with their day, or avoids answering questions either by changing the subject or giving a vague answer, chances are they may be hiding something.</div>
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<li style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 3px 0px 3px 5px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Decreased libido</strong></li>
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Obviously this symptom could have a variety of other reasons, as well – stress, hormones, health. For example, I had this same problem when I switched birth controls. However, if you’ve ruled out the usual options, cheating could be one.</div>
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<li style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 3px 0px 3px 5px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">They suddenly start accusing you of cheating</strong></li>
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This could be a double-edged sword, because maybe they are just being as insecure as you may be being at that moment, for any number of reasons. However, if you both think the other may be cheating, I would suggest taking a closer look at why you both feel that way.</div>
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Anyway, eHarmony suggests that this could be a sign of cheating, because now that they are cheating, they are now more aware that you are capable of doing the same thing. They may also have an extremely guilty conscious.</div>
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<li style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 3px 0px 3px 5px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Their past is too mysterious</strong></li>
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If you have been with this person for months or years and you still know little to nothing about their past, family or friends, it is possible they are trying to keep you in the dark about something.</div>
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<li style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 3px 0px 3px 5px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">They know every member of the opposite sex within a short distance away from home</strong></li>
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Depending on what kind of town you are referring to, this may not be a sign. For example, if you’re from a city where your graduating class was less than 50 students, it’s quite possible you just know most of your community. However, if you live in a place where you shouldn’t know every member of the opposite sex that comes along, and they somehow do, that may be a sign. Especially paired with some of the other signs.</div>
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I would use caution with this one, however. Some people are just that friendly, or get along better with the opposite sex than with their own.</div>
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<li style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 3px 0px 3px 5px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Previously mentioned suspicious behavior is followed shortly by a sweet gesture</strong></li>
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If they are cheating, they probably at least feel guilty about it. So if they start acting suspicious and then suddenly start showering you with gifts of compliments, that could be a sign that they feel bad for what they did and now they are trying to make up for it.</div>
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<li style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 3px 0px 3px 5px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Your friends start dropping hints</strong></li>
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Your friends, assuming they are good ones, will look out for your wellbeing. And they may be more perceptive when something is wrong than you are. After all, love is blind, right? If your friend mentions that something seems off in your relationship, you may want to consider their advice.</div>
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</ins><span style="background-color: white; color: #414141; font-family: Ruda, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; text-align: start;">Again, this sign is best only used if pair with other signs, as some people are workaholics. However, having a job where you’re unexpectedly asked to stay late, pick up more hours or go away on business trips would make the perfect excuse to hide an affair.</span> <script>
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8 Signs to know that your partner is cheating on you

8 Signs to know that your partner is cheating on you

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Ever Wonder Why That Guy You Fancy so Much is Not Into You and Wont Date You? Check out these 8 Reasons.

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There have been a number of occasions when a guy has out right flirted with me, subtle touching, any excuse to get a hug, compliments galore you name it. We’ve even gone as far as exchange numbers/Blackberry pin (Oh how times have changed). So I assumed the next step would be a date. Slow down not necessarily. Here are 8 reasons why a guy may show an interest in you but won’t ask you out.</div>
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1). <b style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">We misread the signs</b></div>
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I hold my hands up whilst I claim to be the queen when it comes to discerning whether a guy likes my friends. Me on the other hand my radar vision gets a little fuzzy. Some guys are just simply polite and have that innate tendency to flirt. Whether it is for attention, ego boost or they just can’t help themselves (side-eye) I don’t know but that’s all it is. Nothing more, nothing less….just flirting. I think us women sometimes mistake the flirting and attentive behaviour for he must really like me. Whilst some men may make eye contact, engage in small talk and or just be really attentive. Upon research this can be an indication of emotional maturity or good human relations skills. No need to start getting excited just yet.</div>
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2 <b style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">He’s already in a relationship</b></div>
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I’m sure every woman’s experienced this they just didn’t realise it. I’ve had men flirt, only to reveal later that they are in a relationship (confused face). Dude why are you flirting with me then? I’d like to think that you’d find this fact out in the early stages of talking to someone. Then again some folks have a tendency to lie so you may get caught out on this one. Regardless the truth will come out sooner or later.</div>
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A friend of mine told me about this guy who’s in a long term relationships yet entertains (flirts with) women left right and center. He has no intention of dating them or getting physical. Why does he do this? Maybe this is his one seemingly harmless way of enjoying the variety of other women in a detached, non-threatening way. I’m not saying its right but this is what people do.</div>
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3. <b style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">He Doesn’t Know How You Feel</b></div>
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This was a recurring response after talking to the brothers. As one of my male friend stated it’s sometimes hard to tell if she wants more. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">I think one of the biggest misconceptions us women have is that the guy must know we like him. This is not always the case. You may think that your flirting back or being friendly but he may be just as unsure about your feelings as you are about him.</span></div>
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There was a guy who I knew fancied me yet he didn’t ask me out. I eventually said I would like to see you more often (my indirect way of stating I like you). We went on a few more dates after that but nothing really came out of it. I thought I was being pretty obvious with my tactful questions about his relationship status, hobbies, flirting, compliments, etc. Clearly I wasn’t. I believe that the same way we females have that hazy uncertainty so do men. How do we avoid this? Be honest about your feelings. Yes I know easier said than done but it avoids any confusion.</div>
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He may be attracted too you physically but not emotionally. A quote from Alan Carter ‘Some men will expresses a lot of curiosity in the way he asks questions, gives you his full attention, and keeps his eyes riveted on you. These behaviors are not an indication that the man is interested in dating you’.</div>
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I’ve been caught out with this one a few times. I’ve convinced myself that when a guy’s physically attracted to me that he must want to date me. Why else would he paying me so much attention? In retrospect I’ve learnt that just because he’s attracted to you doesn’t mean he has feelings for you. He may just find you interesting, nice to look at, similar hobbies traits. This doesn’t mean he wants a relationship.</div>
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5) <b style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">He’s Scared (Rejection)</b></div>
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I’ve mentioned this before and I’ll say it again. Men get scared too ladies! Yes he may have feelings for you but it’s not enough for him to ask you out. I believe that for a man to pursue you aggressively he has to be pretty sure that he stands a chance of winning you over. He may feel you are way out of his league. You don’t feel highly enough for him (refer back to point 3). There are too many suitors vying for your attention as it is and he can’t compete. It may be too much hassle for him to pursue you to be rejected.</div>
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We all go for peaks and troughs in our lives. He may have his own personal reasons that mean he can’t get into any relationship right now. It’s nothing personal. As Steve Harvey states, men are driven by who they are, what they do and how much they make.</div>
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If a man is not in a place emotionally, financially, etc. No matter how much he likes you I doubt he’s going to take things to the next level. It’ll be a lot simpler to let you pass.</div>
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Yes you may share the same common interests but he can’t see himself in a relationship with you. No matter how much you get along, share similar interests and have a mutual attraction. This guy may not be able to see a future with you. The way ladies envision whether they can see a meaningful relationship is the same for men.</div>
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8) <b style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">He Just Wants Sex</b></div>
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Some people are happy with this set up and others aren’t. I do believe that if you’re hoping for a relationship and you rush into intimacy you could be ending up for a fall. We’ve all heard the saying listen to what a man says. If he states he doesn’t want to date at the moment. That usually means…..he doesn’t want to date at the moment. Just because he’ll have sex with you doesn’t mean he’s entertained the thought of a relationship. Don’t think that after being intimate it’s going to convince him that he wants to settle down.</div>
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Ever Wonder Why That Guy You Fancy so Much is Not Into You and Wont Date You? Check out these 8 Reasons.

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<span itemprop="articleBody" style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">At the same time, just because men ought to be taking the first step doesn’t mean that women don’t play their part in the dance. In fact, there are a few mistakes I see women repeatedly make that undermine their attractiveness. Here are six that stand out:</span></div>
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<li style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 3px 0px 3px 5px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Posting kissy-face selfies – actually, posting almost any version of the selfie online.</strong> Ladies, I know how exciting it must be to finally take a super awesome self-portrait in the bathroom mirror after repeatedly snapping photos of yourself for over half an hour, but believe me, it just makes you look desperate. Get around groups where decent, eligible bachelors hang out, and look good in person. Seriously, stop advertising yourself on the internet.</li>
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The Dating Manifesto</em>. She says that when you go on a date, “it’s good to have questions prepared (in your head — not on paper, your phone, or a whiteboard). Believe it or not, you like to talk about yourself more than you think. Don’t be a conversation hog . . . [Y]ou don’t want to interrogate, but too much talking on your part wears your date down.”</li>
<li style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 3px 0px 3px 5px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Bad-mouthing your body. </strong>There’s nothing more unattractive than a woman who reminds men how out-of-shape she is. I remember back in my single days talking to this one woman who seemed really pretty to me, and then she started talking about how she needed to lose weight because she was so fat. All of a sudden, she began to look overweight and unattractive. Listen, I realize that having a positive body image may be a very real struggle for you, but work that out with your girlfriends or a counselor, not with potential suitors. You’re probably very attractive, and making insulting comments about your body only undermines your beauty.</li>
<li style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 3px 0px 3px 5px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Failing to reciprocate.</strong> Like I said before, I think it’s the man’s job to take the first step, but once a man does, please don’t just stand there and hope he’s secure enough to do it again. Men often feel terribly insecure about initiating, so if you have any interest in him giving it another try, reciprocate in some way. For example, this might involve a playful emoji in a text, a compliment, or asking questions in return. It does not, however, involve throwing yourself at him, which is the subject of my next point.</li>
<li style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 3px 0px 3px 5px;"><strong style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Coming off as desperate.</strong> When a woman projects desperation, it’s not usually because of <em style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">what she’s doing </em>when she interacts with a man, but <em style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">how she feels</em> when she interacts with him. Here’s what I mean: If you’re about to text, talk, touch or take a chance with a man and you feel that grasping, clingy, gotta-make-something-happen-or-I’m-never-gonna-get-married feeling, stop. Just stop. Men want to win their companion, not have her thrown across their front doorstep. Know that you are a valuable and desirable woman because God made you that way, and operate from that assumption whenever engaging with men.</li>
<li style="-webkit-appearance: none; margin: 0px; padding: 3px 0px 3px 5px;">You probably want to wait a few dates before you start talking about your family issues, the way you felt excluded in high school, and that medical disorder that’s almost completely resolved. You’re interesting enough without having to turn the conversation into a therapy session.</li>
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When on a first date with someone you are really getting to know, you don't have to spill everything about yourself but that doesn't mean you should be fake or be uncomfortable. Since both sexes are seeking to impress each other  on that date, it is easy to fall out of line and be phony about so many things.</span></div>
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<span style="border: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: medium; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;"><strong style="border: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;">Pretending you care about partying:</strong> He’s telling you crazy stories about his penchant for partying. You don’t want to seem boring so you pull out some old wild story about a night you had too much to drink. But truthfully, you only have that one story to tell because you don’t really like partying that much.</span></div>
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<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Have you been wondering about how you can have s*x soon after childbirth? Then you should go through this carefully.</span></strong></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">S*x after childbirth can be scary for many women; even though childbirth makes them to have all it takes to make their husbands want more $ex on mere sighting them; talk of larger (milk-filled) B.reasts and pointed nipples. It is even for this reason that some men ‘compete for’ or ‘alternate’ the B.reasts with their new babies.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Although s*xual intercourse is not encouraged until six weeks after, for those who had normal delivery, to allow the body heal faster and avoid likely infections, some men have often described such women as more attractive. But those might not be enough to boost the confidence and preparedness of some women to resume $exual activities with their husbands, and the fears may not be misplaced after all.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">For those who had normal delivery, some tend to be apprehensive of what their partners would think of what has become of their body, largely because of their fatigued and ‘loose body.’ Coupled with exhaustion and other things that could take their minds away from going for another romp in the sack, it is not uncommon to see that some couples’ s*x lives derail after childbirth.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">And on the other hand, for those who had Caesarean Section, the pain may not abate quickly, which makes $ex somewhat painful. Even though the tightness of the vagina is retained when a woman gives birth through CS, which is the reason why some men encourage their wives to go through the operation to avoid having a loose vagina afterwards, studies have however shown that s*x may become more painful for such couples after childbirth until it heals completely. Thus, such women shy away from it for some time.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Impliedly, whether the delivery was done through normal delivery, use of some equipment, through CS or there was episiotomy, which is a surgical cut made at the opening of the vagina during childbirth to widen the passage for easy delivery and prevent rupture of tissues, there is usually the possibility of a cut, tear or scar at the end of the exercise, which could dampen couples’ $ex lives. But there is a way out.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">For women who had CS, one good way to enjoy $ex after childbirth and avoid nightmarish experiences would be to explore extensive foreplay or adopt other $ex positions apart from the missionary style so as not to put too much pressure on the pain until it heals.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">According to a popular nurse and $exual health expert, Samantha Evans, “Pressure on the wound arising from CS can cause pain, while some loss of sensation around the wound can also occur, making it sensitive to touch.
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 Therefore these women should avoid $exual positions which exert pressure on their abdomens and over the wound site.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">And apart from using helpful $exual positions, experts have advised foreplay, which can take both parties to orgasm without any penile intercourse. Medical experts have pointed out that the stimulation of the glans (the rounded part forming the end of the Pen!s) can make men ejaculate, and the stimulation of the clitoris or the nipples can take women to their own destination. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Thankfully, previous studies, as earlier discussed on this page, have shown that a significant number of women don’t reach orgasm through penetrative $ex, but through the stimulation of such vital parts.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">According to a consultant endocrinologist, Dr. Olamoyegun Michael, couples can still have an exciting $exual experience after childbirth because, physiologically, childbirth does not affect $exual performance in women.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">He said if there was no problem at delivery and there were no injuries, there should be no reason for any reduced libido or enjoyment of $ex and couples can enjoy $ex after delivery, as much as they did before the pregnancy.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">In fact, he said such women tend to experience increased vag!nal secretion, which is key in $exual enjoyment, and that if there is dryness at all, it is possibly because there is no enough stimulation. Thus, the man should engage the woman in extensive foreplay so she could be wet.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">He said, “There is no physiological explanation why somebody should have reduced libido after delivery. The hormones produced during pregnancy don’t necessarily increase or reduce libido and they go back to normal after delivery. The increased blood flow occurs during pregnancy and there is nothing like that after childbirth. Six weeks after delivery, the body goes back to pre-pregnancy state. So, whatever changes that occurred that period disappears six weeks after the childbirth.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Be that as it may, Olamoyegun cautioned that whether such women would enjoy $ex, or the extent to which they would, depend on the circumstances surrounding the delivery.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">He explained, “If at delivery, the child was too big, or the child was in an abnormal position, making the delivery difficult and she sustains injury, or the woman was given episiotomy, which is a surgical cut made at the opening of the vagina during childbirth to expand it, and she had a tear or injury, if it is not allowed to heal very well, she may end up in pains and that can reduce her libido. It is called dyspareunia, meaning difficult or painful $exual intercourse.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">“If it was episiotomy and it was done by a competent professional and it was well sutured (a stitch or row of stitches holding together the edges of a wound or surgical incision), and they allow it to heal very well before they start having s*x, there shouldn’t be any problem. They can have a good $ex life afterwards. But, there will be a problem if it didn’t heal very well or if it wasn’t well done.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">“For example, the stitching may narrow the birth canal (vagina), and it may cause pain during $ex. If they have a problem and they feel the woman’s vagina is tighter than how it should be, she would need to see a competent professional like an obstetrician gynaecologists, who could dilate it; make it wider, and find a way to correct or expand it.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">“Beyond these, during $ex after childbirth, the husband needs to be gentle with the wife, especially during penetration. Such women will need to relax and there is need for significant foreplay so she could be wet to avoid pain during penetration.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">From findings, loose vagina is a common experience after normal childbirth, and it is a major turn-off for men. So, on what is the way out, Olamoyegun has this to say.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">“There are various forms of exercise that can be done to tighten the vagina wall if it is loose and one of such is pelvic floor exercise, also known as Kegel exercise, which helps to tighten the muscle around the vagina. And it works, but if that is not very effective, there are other procedures to tighten it.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">He said without exercise, the vagina can still firm up with time but it may not be very effective and it will take a longer time. So, for a tighter vagina, which is key in $exual enjoyment, women should take up such exercises.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">But even when all these have been taken care of, it is not uncommon to see couples having difficulty with their post-partum $ex life. According to Olamoyegun, this is due to some social factors that can be addressed.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">He said, “Women usually add weight during pregnancy and most women don’t shed that weight after delivery, so they might not be as pretty and attractive to their husbands as they used to be. It may reduce the number of times they have $ex, and that is why such women are advised to do some exercises.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">“Also, some women shift their attention from the men to the child, so, they don’t have time for $ex neither do they have time to look attractive for their husbands, which can lessen the interest of the man in the woman. The fear of pregnancy is also there and it is more so for those who are not interested in family planning. These are social factors, and if they are taken care of, there is no reason why there will be a decrease in $exual drive.”</span></div>
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Ladies, You Don’t Have To Worry Anymore! This Is How To Enjoy S*x Soon After Childbirth

Ladies, You Don’t Have To Worry Anymore! This Is How To Enjoy S*x Soon After Childbirth

Have you been wondering about how you can have s*x soon after childbirth? Then you should go through this carefully. S*x...

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